googlebreastcancer.jpgThe very first day that I heard from my doctor that I had breast cancer, I Googled, “Queer Women with Breast Cancer”. I got nothing at all. No hits. You don’t get much with, “Queer Breast Cancer” either. I was surprised. I started this blog, in part, as a way of creating a formidable cluster of links in the sparse chain of significations that coalesce around Women::Queer::Cancer.

There has been a really cool discussion on the Comments page of a previous post, about relationships between being lesbian/straight, and the likelihood of breast reconstruction after mastectomy. What I think is really amazing and interesting in my journey through breast cancer world, is the collection of very brilliant and tough women of all sexualities who are queering cancer, and what it means to survive and thrive. There are lots of queer straight women and you/they are radically improving my quality of life by blogging your/their worlds.

So what does that mean, Women::Queer::Cancer?

Go and listen to S.L. Wisenberg, of the Cancer Bitch blog. Go take a look at Rebel1in8’s Classic Rebel1in8 T-shirt . Go take a spin through the Assertive Cancer Patient’s blog about the One-Breasted Woman Fashion Show. Hang out with Pocketina, at DIY, Not DIE. I could go on…

It’s my current obsession - to queer cancer. Eve Sedgwick, in Tendencies, notes that, “The word ‘queer’ itself means across—it comes from the Indo-European root twerkw, which also yields the German queer (traverse) [and] Latin torquere (to twist)” (xii). Queer typically yields a distinctively modificatory meaning, when inserted in front of a noun or verb, as in, Queer Cancer, that means, to distort, ruin, spoil or otherwise F*CK with cancer.

This is where my psychic incontinence becomes relevant, in case you were wondering about the obscure title of this post. Since my diagnosis, I have been coming undone. I am all over the place. I am, I could say, without being overly dramatic, in the midst of a breakdown. Now before you think you should pick up the phone and save me, I don’t mean that I am unable to cope with the tasks of everyday living. Yes, I have fed and walked the dog today. What I mean is that there is something so primal about the impact of breast cancer generally, and for me, a bilateral mastectomy in particular, that I am experiencing a fragmentation of identity and sense of self and the world. I am radically unsure of everything. I can’t contain my psychic unrest. To survive, then, as I traverse breast cancer, I must twist its conventional meanings and cultural significance. And so I blog. And I join the collective imagination of Women::Queer::Cancer. I spread myself across the world, social networks, the keyboard and the screen and everything in-between and elsewhere. Breast cancer is already something/somewhere/someone else.